“Some things are the way they are and words just can’t explain…I never saw blue like that before, across the sky, around the world…you’re giving me all you have and more, no one else has ever shown me how to see the world the way I see it now…” --Shawn Colvin
If I’ve learned anything about myself over the past year, I’ve learned that I have a strong desire for a plan, a direction, a road to follow. And, wouldn’t you know it, sometimes life just doesn’t happen that way. Sometimes it just happens.
Things that are important to me, like a husband and a family are not so easily planned. I can’t sit down and say, “Here are the five steps I need to take in order to find that person I want to spend my life with.” How irritating is that?
People are always paying lip service to the notion that the whole relationship issue will be resolved “when you least expect it/aren’t looking/are patient” and so on and so on. So I wait. I know that when it is supposed to happen, it will.
So I don’t obsess about it, don’t worry about it. Go with the flow. Which is totally opposite to my nature – I want CONTROL…but I have to let it go.
Here’s to letting things happen naturally...
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